Wedding advice from real couples that is actually helpful

As a bride, you’ll hear it all, the heartfelt, the helpful, and the completely unnecessary. But the advice that truly matters comes from those who’ve lived the experience. This is a curated edit of thoughtful, practical insights from real brides who’ve walked the aisle before you.

Forget the obvious tips like “hire a planner” or “set a budget.” This is your insider’s guide to navigating the planning, the pressure, and the joy with more ease and far more clarity.

Planning & Day-of Advice

Create a separate email account for all things wedding

Trust us, this is a game changer. Keeping all your quotes, contracts, and RSVP confirmations in one inbox will save you from endless scrolling and missed messages. Even if you have a planner, this helps you stay in the loop without the chaos.

Assign someone to handle gifts properly

Some guests may hand you an envelope or gift mid-celebration. The tricky part? You have nowhere to put it, or they might not write their name. Enter: your trusted family member. Have them note down what comes in and from whom, and keep everything in one place. You'll be grateful for this when it's time to send thank yous.

Pre-schedule your WhatsApp messages

Many wedding planners will already do this as part of their coordination, but it’s worth emphasising. With multiple group chats and guests constantly asking where to go or what to wear, scheduled messages can be a lifesaver. If you’re not working with a planner, delegate this to a reliable bridesmaid or sibling.

Pro-tip: Use apps that allow you to plan reminders ahead of time for call times, outfit details, or guest updates.

Make space for a moment that’s just yours

Not for photos or formalities — just to breathe, take it in, and be present together. Make sure there's a designated spot for this moment. Trust us, the aunties will be on the lookout for a photo op, and this quiet pocket of time will be your best escape.

Fashion Advice

Pre-pack, label, and triple-check your outfits

Packing cubes are your best friend. Group each outfit by event, down to the bangles and bindis. Better yet, do a trial run for each outfit and snap a picture for a visual reference. Label them with the date and any styling notes. Come wedding week, this level of organisation is priceless.

Choose comfort over drama

If an outfit needs constant adjusting, it’s not the one. Skip fussy blouses and overly structured drapes. You’ll feel better, move better, and look more effortless in every photo.

Pack a backup blouse or lining (especially for outdoor events)

Singapore heat plus multiple ceremonies can be intense. Having a fresh blouse or lining on hand makes a world of difference. It keeps you looking crisp and feeling cool, especially for outfit repeats in photos.

Carry flat shoes to every event

Even if you’re a heels-all-day kind of bride, you will reach a point where your feet protest. Foldable juttis or flats in your handbag or car boot are non-negotiable.

Food Advice

Do your tasting and take detailed notes

Flavours can blur when you’re trying multiple dishes, so jot everything down during your tasting. What stood out? What needs more, or less, flavour? What needs tweaking? Don’t leave it to memory, especially for larger menus.

Don’t forget to eat, seriously

It sounds basic, but many couples end the day having barely touched a plate. Have someone bring food to your room, or schedule a quick snack break between rituals. No one feels magical on an empty stomach.

Make food stations unmistakably clear

Especially in mixed diet weddings, don’t rely on subtle labels or guesswork. Use bold, clear signage for vegetarian and non-vegetarian counters, or alcoholic and non-alcoholic beverages. Saves questions and avoids mix-ups or upsets.

Fun & Photos Advice

Add a song request line to your RSVP

It’s simple and so effective. Guests feel involved, and you end up with a playlist that reflects the crowd. Bonus, they will dance when their song comes on.

Nominate a crowd wrangler

Every wedding needs that one friend who can project their voice and get people moving. Whether it’s wrangling relatives for photos or clearing the dance floor for your big entrance, they keep things flowing when energy dips or timelines drift.

Schedule your portraits before ANY ceremony begins

Once events kick off, it's nearly impossible to pull yourself away. Plan your couple, family, and bridal portraits first. Hair and makeup are fresh, and you'll look your most relaxed.

Block 30 minutes post photos for touch-ups

This small window between portraits and your next appearance is everything. A quick refresh with powder, lipstick, maybe a little mist, and you’re glowing again with no filters needed.